Sunday, July 20, 2008

Think Your Spouse Could Be Cheating? How To Find Out For Sure!

By Jack Mason

Suspecting that your spouse is being unfaithful to you can be incredibly worrisome. It doesn't matter why you are suspicious - the bottom-line is that you deserve to know if they are being faithful. I want to show you an easy method to find out if your significant other is cheating on you.

This "detective work" involves a few easy to follow steps. Let's go over them step by step to be sure you can uncover the answers you are hoping to find.

Step Number One

To accomplish this first step, it is important to get your spouse away from their cell phone for ten to fifteen minutes (longer, if possible) so that you can look at it. Pick a time when they won't be able to catch you at this.

A decent time is to wait until they just get into the shower or head out to the store so you are certain that you have some time to yourself.

When you have their cell phone, get a pen and paper.

Find the call history the "incoming" and "outgoing" call history lists. Write down every phone number on both lists. If there are numbers you recognize leave them off your list. Just be certain that you jot down each number that you aren't sure of.

After this, put back the phone and turn on your computer.

Your Second "Mission"

When you have your completed list, you are going to "investigate" who owns of every number on the list.

A reverse phone lookup will be able to give you many details about people, even if the only information you have about them is their phone number. You can find out their full names, addresses and more from this one piece of information.

These days many numbers are not to be found in the phone book - with the proliferation of cell phones and the growing number of people choosing to be unlisted, it can be hard to find out the information you are seeking.

There is a way though - businesses exist who are in the business of compiling phone numbers, even unlisted and cell phone numbers. They put these numbers into searchable databases, which are available to the public.

Since these companies pay money to put together their directories they charge a small fee for using their services. Fortunately, it's only a few bucks and will immediately show you complete information for every phone number you input.

A good way to save some money is to use a service that charges a "once-only" fee for unlimited searches. You are only charged the one time and can then conduct a search whenever you want. Since your list will have more than one phone number so you do not want to be charged every time you run a search.

At the bottom of this article, you'll find a link to a free sample search, so that you can see for yourself how this service works. It is astounding how much can be found out about a person from just their phone number.

Run a search on each unidentified phone number in your spouse's call history. Write down the results of these searches.

Step #3

Last of all, have a look through the names your searches have pulled up for you. Do you see anything suspicious here? In many cases, when cheating is suspected there is a specific person with whom you think your spouse may be fooling around. Do you see this person on your list of names?

In any case, you do now have the information you need to know just who your spouse has been talking to. This can be valuable in trying to find if there has been any untoward behavior.

This way of checking up on your spouse is simple and gives you at least some information to go on if you suspect that your spouse has been unfaithful to you.

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